So we made the trip across this great big continent of ours the other week. Man, that thing is huge! It is so humbling to see the land from the sky and realize how vast the USA is. It is also very sobering to see the incredible sprawl that has taken place around urban centers. My god, it seems to go on forever. It is especially apparent at night when there are clear flying conditions and you can see the little twinkle of the city lights from way up high. It is also amazing how big the deserts are. That has always astonished me.
Our time spent in FL was one full of family and the hustle of life there. Ironically, as we were enjoying our family visit, a friend of ours from Oregon was close by, spending what must have been the most difficult of family times. Our hearts go out to you Lane.
On Easter Sunday, Ruby had almost her entire family (minus one Uncle) in one place. From her aunts, cousins, grandparents, and her great-grandpa Hubert (now a great-great grandpa at 92). I was really glad that everyone could be there to see us and Ruby. It wasn't that difficult since everyone lives really close by. That is, everyone but us. Yes, it was hard not to face our decision to move 3,000 miles away when almost your entire family lives in the same town. It seems like we have to justify it to family, strangers, even ourselves quite often. Our response is usually the same: it is hard, but it is the right decision for us at this time. Will we always live this far from our families? I don't know. But for now, it is what we have decided to do. I hope everyone can understand and not judge us for it.
Megan and I traveled to Oregon on our honeymoon, before we ever thought that we would live here. We instantly fell in love with it. It has everything that we have always wanted in a place to live. And when you come from a place that you have never really connected with, it feels amazing. That feeling, combined with the pace of life that we want to raise our daughter in, and the economics to allow Megan to stay home with Ruby and for us to buy a house, all on a sufficient but small salary, has made Oregon the best place for us to be, for now.
But at the expense of leaving our family and friends behind? This is something that we constantly struggle with. Sometimes life leads you to a distant shore to make a new life. Fortunately, in our modern times (which may or may not be coming to a close) we have the ability to fly 3,000 in one day to see our friends and family. Ruby was so amazing during the flights. Whenever it comes up she still says, "airport...more." Maybe its just that she knows where the planes take us.
